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A Hurting Daughter Can Become a Hurting Mother
Can hurt spread like a virus?
A young daughter is hurt, by the words of her mother. She is often offended, and wounded by those words, as she keeps her thoughts and feelings to herself. Over the years she plans and plots her escape from her mother through her intra-conversations!Those hurtful words are planted deep into her subconscious mind and like a virus they filter through the conscious and unconscious mind. Spreading deep roots that will one day affect her.Mothers, when you find yourself saying, words to your daughter that you promised not to say to her as a child, yet you find those words coming out of your mouth, the virus is spreading!Now the daughter is infected, by your virus words. God said, “As is the mother, so is her daughter.” (Ezekiel 16:44)Mothers, we need to own our part in our daughter’s weaknesses. When you were a young woman, your daughter was watching you and she saw things you did, she still remembers! Now, that you are “Saved” and “Serving the Lord,” it seems that you’ve forgotten who you were, at her age.When you were young doing your thing, you found yourself not listening to your mother, or any wise counsel. The Bible says, “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes. But a wise man is he who listens to counsel.” (Proverbs 12:15) I think we can all relate to that Bible verse. We have all played the role of a fool. In most cases being foolish brought us to Jesus!Your daughter is still your little girl, no matter her age. She still needs your help in her struggles to understand life. You can help her avoid some of your trials and errors that you experienced. In Titus 2:4, God said, “That they (women) may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children.” He is depending on us to lead our daughters to Jesus for Salvation! God is counting on us, mothers to do that for Him.Mothers, your secrets too, are viruses spreading through your daughter’s Soul! Now, that you are Saved, and have been cleansed of your own viruses, you have a responsibility to help rid your daughter of hers!Remember, “As is the mother, so is her daughter.” (Ezekiel 16:44)
Did you know someone knows every aspect of your mother and daughter relationship? There are many facets of a mother and daughter relationship, and only God knows the answer. He knows the beginning and the end. He even knows the numbers of hairs on your head. (Matthew 10:30) God is careful to watch over His daughters. Many of whom He selects to become mothers. It is an honor and should be a pleasure to be a mother. As a mother, you get to mold and shape a human being, according to the will of God. Mothers, you must seek God’s will for your daughters. In doing so, you help fulfill His Kingdom. It is no accident you are her mother, and that she is your daughter. It was a part of His initial plan. God has His eyes on you, mother. The way you treat and speak to your daughter is being recorded for future accountability. Now you know of these things, it’s expected of you to repent and follow His will. You are to treat your daughters with respect, kindness, love, and forgiveness in every aspect of your relationship. You can no longer get by with; “I didn’t know!” Jesus said, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” (Proverbs 22:6) He also said, “Every seed will produce more of its own kind.” (Genesis 1:11) Mothers your words are seeds planted into your daughter’s mind and she will bring forth that harvest! Mother when you hear God’s eyes are watching you, you’re first thought maybe to look up! God is in every human and that makes Him omnipresent! He sees you through the eyes of others, even through the eyes of your daughter! So, when you feel no one is paying attention, God is! Keep in mind mothers, when you look into your daughter’s eyes, you are looking into the eyes of God!
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