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A Mother's Blessings

Can the blessings of a mother influence the life of her daughter?

    When most of us hear of the word “Blessing” God comes to mind. God is the giver of blessings. I was taught that I must have “Faith” to receive blessings from God. Jesus said, in Mark 11:22, “Have Faith in God." 
    Mothers, can you remember a situation when you decided to trust God? Knowing that the only way you would be able to get out of your situation was to have Faith in God. Looking back over your journey, you can see the many blessings of God. However, when you were going through, you had to “Walk by Faith, not by Sight.” (2 Corinthians 5:7) 
    A young girl knows her mother to be a pillow of truth. She trusts her mother. If a mother says good or bad words, to her daughter it has an affect on her. Mothers, you are the only Jesus that your daughter sees!  
    If you speak hateful words to your daughter, evil will develop within her mind. If you speak loving and positive words to your daughter, good will manifest within her mind. You are the main ingredient to the outcome of your daughter, and God is holding you responsible for her Soul/Mind.  
    In many clinical sessions, I’ve had mother say, “It’s wrong to talk to my daughter the way I do, but that’s the way my mother spoke to me! My mother never had a kind word for me. She would call me ugly names and told me I would never amount to anything! Now, I say those same ugly hateful words to my daughter. What can I do? 
    I suggested that she changes her words and tone she uses toward your daughter. I explained she needed to repent, by asking God, in the name of Jesus Christ to forgive her. Then she should apologize to your daughter, asking her for forgiveness. Doing these things place your mind in a Faith position to receive God’s forgiveness and His blessings, for a loving and trusting relationship with your daughter. 
    Your positive words will bless your daughter as they help her become a Godly woman. The more you bless your daughter, the more blessings you will receive from God! Luke 6:38 says, “Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.” 
    In other words, you get back what you give!


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